In traditional Javanese and Minang cultures, a son-in-law is expected to provide sembah (homage) or neng (gifts). However, the "Japan Bapak" takes this to an extreme.
This creates a unique "culture shock" within the home. The son-in-law is often the bridge-builder, trying to reconcile Indonesian spontaneity with Japanese structure. 3. The Modern Masculinity Shift Japan Xxx Bapak Vs Menantu Mesum
To understand the debate, one must first understand the cultural archetypes being invoked. In traditional Javanese and Minang cultures, a son-in-law