Without , we drift. We become reactive rather than proactive. We rely on trial and error, which is slow and painful. With a strong role model, we compress decades of learning into months. We borrow their mistakes. We steal their posture. We inherit their confidence.
“She was a large woman,” he said, “with a large head and large hands. She wore a brown corduroy suit and a brown felt hat, and she sat in a large armchair, and she talked. She talked about the war, the First World War, which she had lived through, and about the way the young men had come back from it, changed. She said they had lost their innocence, and that this loss was the only thing that mattered, the only thing worth writing about. She said that Hemingway had lost his innocence, but that he had found a way to write about it that was like a clean, white line on a blank page. She said that Fitzgerald had lost his innocence, but that he had found a way to write about it that was like a beautiful, sad party that went on too long. She said that she herself had never lost her innocence, because she had never had any to lose. She said that innocence was a luxury of the young, and that she had never been young.” Role Models
To close, let’s get practical. Take thirty minutes this weekend to audit the influences in your life. Without , we drift