In many interpretations, Dataram views himself as "other." He sees his romantic interest—often a human or a more organic being—and feels a profound sense of inadequacy. He cannot age with them; he cannot offer a biological future; he is, in essence, static while they are dynamic.

To understand the romantic potential of Dataram, one must first understand the architecture of the character. Unlike traditional androids or robots who often lack human history, Dataram occupies a unique space: he is often a digital resurrection or a reconstruction of a human being (often specifically tied to the legacy of Ram in science fiction lore).